Are state/county written and provided parenting plans law?

County Standard Parenting Plans are only recommendations that a judge can use or choose to not use. This would also be modifiable by the court.

Could this qualify as duress?

Since you were represented at the time, you should consult your attorney. My initial response, without more information, is that it would not reach...

How can I stop CPS from making my 16 yr old daughter a ward of the court?

While your daughter is 16 she is still a minor. You should follow your attorneys advice or find another attorney. You might also want to get an...

Concerned that the judge will request I continue living in OR after divorce due to young child involved.

If Oregon is your home you will have to file in Oregon. I would not recommend moving to Texas while the divorce is in progress unless your Husband...

Whether you can prevail will depend on some other facts, but I believe you have enough to modify the parenting schedule if you believe this is not...

Can I legally go pick my son up while there is an open court case?

While you question is vague, if the child was taken away from you for neglect and drugs I would be surprised that there is not some type of custody...

My daughter's attorney is ignoring her (and me too, I'm the one who is paying her). At what point should I get another attorney?

The attorney/client relationship is built on trust and communication. If your daughter's attorney is not answering calls and she is not happy with...

Am I just doing this for nothing? Is court the only option at this point?

The only way to enforce the terms of a judgment is through the court system. The consequences for not following the orders of the court can be...

Is it possible for me to terminate his rights completely?

Generally I have found that the only way to terminate his parental rights is through adoption, but that requires a 3rd party willing to adopt and...

Want to know if I have my son in my hands can I take him home with me? Since there is no legal custody order in place?

I would suggest you see an attorney and present all the facts before taking this type action.