Can I get guardianship NOW, even if the custody hasn't been agreed, and my father doesn't make it to the court hearing?

This is simply too complicated to answer based on your short summary. Biological parents have a superior right to raise their child over any one...

How to make a will

Neither a Will or a Living Will necessarily address who will raise your child. What you are probably referring to is a nomination of guardian...

Is it possible to get no visitation or at best supervised and still obtain some measure of child support?

Not sure what you mean that you applied for paternity services. All you have to do in Oregon is ask the State to help you establish child support....

See if the court where your divorce was filed offers family mediation and if so, call the mediation department and see if they will allow you to...

Can I handle my mother's estate without a lawyer, such as take care of probate and send notice of death letters?

You should absolutely not attempt to file a probate without an attorney. There is always a possibility that you don't need to file probate, but...

I have been offered a job in another state where I have family. Can I take the baby (3 mos old) and move there?

The courts do have the power to keep the baby here with dad if they feel that on the balance, the benefit of your move is outweighed by the...

Snow day - When do I need to return my daughter to her mother?

Your daughter should be returned on the day that was originally on the school schedule for the end of winter break. That is what your parenting...

When your children are at their father's it is really his time and he can set up play dates or anything else he wants to do with the children...

How to remove a set aside from the other party.

You have better check your facts. It may be that the hearing that has been set if for you to object to the motion to set aside the default...

Does she have to testify in court on an issue that has no baring on this divorce hearing?

Try to recognize how contradictory your own statement is about what happened - you first state that your daughter WAS sexually abused by her father...