Robert F Demary

I was involved with a high asset divorce for over a year. My first attorney was OK, but things were moving slowly. So I switched to hire Bob. After my first appointment with him, I felt for the first time that I had someone who had the experience, knowledge and firepower to advocate for me. He knows ...about high asset law and has a great team. I really felt that he really cared about me and my case. He encouraged me to do research and to contribute what I knew. He took into consideration my suggestions. He wasn't in it just for the money and encouraged me to take steps that I could to lessen the costs for me. And, at one point, maybe sensing I was low on funds, he gave me a professional discount! Things went as quickly and with as good final result as can be expected. When we met with opposing counsel for the deposition and before the judge, the only thing I could think of was, "Boy, I'm sure glad that Bob is MY attorney-- and not my spouse's attorney!"

Bob Demary is an amazing attorney. I used him to secure custody of my child during a difficult time. He cared deeply about my situation, providing amazing legal expertise with a real personal touch. I left another law office to hire Mr. Demary and was not disappointed. He was a real "bull dog" and pu...t my ex's attorney in his place constantly. He saved me and my daughter. If you have a difficult case and want to work with someone that is professional and cares for you personally, you need to call him.

Mr Demary has represented me regarding my legal matters for several years. A number of years ago he did an outstanding job negotiating the property settlement and divorce from my former spouse. Most recently Bob challenged the continuation of the $2k per month spousal support I have been paying for a... number of years. I was seeking a reduction based on the fact that my ex-wife was cohabitating with a man and they had purchased a home together. When the case went to trial Mr Demary was very well prepared and argued the case successfully. Bottom line... The judge agreed with our position and totally eliminated any further payments to my ex-wife. I couldn't have expected a better outcome! Several of my friends recommended Bob as the best attorney in the Portland area for domestic relations issues. I have to agree with there assessment. Where Bob really "shines" is during his courtroom presentation... Highly recommended him to anyone seeking legal counsel in this area...

Bob handled my ugly divorce and child custody case with professionalism and grace. He is a bulldog and knows how to navigate bullies from the other side. He also brings humor and compassion to the table making the situation real and human. He treated me with respect and I never felt like I was just a... "client." He was genuinely concerned about the best interest of me and my children. He is incredibly knowledgeable and sharp. I would highly recommend Bob in any situation where divorce is ugly and custody is a sticky situation.

Bob helped me navigate an extremely challenging divorce case with kindness and human compassion helping me keep my daughter's priorities in the forefront. I had hired an initial attorney that had gotten me into a very difficult position simply by the way that we had chosen to respond to my ex's attor...ney position. I was faced with what seemed as an insurmountable situation with one of the top attorney's in Portland (Stahancyk) on the opposing council and limitless funds on my ex's side. Bob gave clear advice as to what realistically could be achieved given the situation and helped me keep the heightened emotional aura of the situation in check. Divorce is an extremely painful time for everyone involved and I am grateful for having had Bob on my side. He used the art of compromise to achieve the best outcome possible while keeping with a core professional ethic of acting in the best interest of the child.