Can any of my situation affect her custody battle and is there any restrictions or things I'm prohibited from doing

You have answered your own question. The father IS making you an issue. The real question is whether you and GF can work around it, which depends...

WE DONT HAVE LEGAL DOCUMENTS ON CUSTODY BUT WHATS MY FIRST STEP B5 SHE ACTUALLY TAKES MY BABYBOYS I'M SCARED SHE WILL HELP

You have specific rights under ORS 109.103. You need to file a petition for custody and seek an TPOR. If you cannot handle this your self, then...

Can one move for a change in venue after a limited judgement has been filed but before the second trial date?

There are way too many facts not stated in your questions, to even try to answer your question. For instance, you do not say why you want the...

How long will the court take to set a trial date?

depends on county and judge. I assume you are in Washington County. Different judges do things differently. You will likely get a notice form the...

Is it legal or common for the opposing attorney to be responsible for drafting and filing a judgement on behalf of the court?

If one is gong to be pro se, then one has to follow rules and customs. If the other lawyer volunteered to writ up the order order and did it...

Given my situation, what can i file for contempt or for the police to enforce the order?

Contempt might be available, but a better solution is to file for enforcement of parenting time rights. Forms should be available. If you cannot...

Do I need to do it in Massachusetts or can I do it from Oregon?

You can get a "status only" divorce in Oregon, i.e. end the marriage and become a single person again. If there are any other issues (debts,...

I am not aware of any "law" on this, but you KNOW that the other side will make it an issue in a custody battle, so why lead with your chin?

Can my wife take my kids and move out of state?

IMMEDIATELY consult an experienced father's rights lawyer experienced in move-aways cases. The las has changed in this area, and it is possible to...

How can my husbands rights be revoked so he's not responsible for a child he never met nor had an established relationship?

Unless mother has someone adopt the child, the answer is no, you cannot do it..