Another thought: file a motion seeking modification to give you specific rights to provide medical care.

Is there anything else I can do so once we're married he can adopt him? If so, how do I do it and will I need a lawyer to do so?

It sounds like you may have a claim for abandonment. If so, you can force an adoption without consent. Consult a lawyer to verify.

What age will a judge take a minor childs opinion into consideration when asking for modifications to an existing parenting plan

All the points stated by others are accurate, but I am not nearly as pessimistic as the others. Rather than frame the question of whether to have...

Can i still go to court to get child support from him?

Yes. You may consuo.t a private lawyer who can handle this, Or, you may seek paternity and support services through the local district attorney.

What constitutes disruptive phone calls during time with non-custodial parent?

Such a ruling is totally unusual and surprising to me. But, as to future action, you need to rely on your lawyer's advice.

Can I, as the noncustodial parent, take my child out of the state if our parenting plan has no restrictions on travel?

Yes, but be cautious as stated by the other attorney. There are other unknowns: e.g., if mother has knowledge of your plans, will she actively...

Which state will enforce the child support order? Will the order follow Utah guidelines or Oregon guidelines?

There are too many facts not posted. Is this a UIFSA proceeding or a UCCHEA proceeding., etc.? Best to consult with an experienced lawyer when...

Is this not a good way to communicate with my child's mother?

This is way too subtle to try to give advise on this forum. You need to talk with a lawyer and have him/her read the pleadings in light of the...

Can you put a restraining order on your landlord if you are in fear of her kidnapping your 1 year old daughter ?

Consider moving. There are a lot of facts that you did not post. E.g., is boyfriend the father? If not, move and end relationship with BF. If...

Can I get credited back child support paid when the child was actually not attending school?

There are several important facts not posted. Follow Gruber's advise and get termination started. Consult a lawyer on what remedies, if any, you...