I would say yes and yes. But, consult with a lawyer specializing in wills.

Five children. Have custody of one and only two want to come can non custodial parent take only the children who want to come.

Does Oregon law force to take all children or non? No

In the case of "modification packets", are they for only parenting time, or for legal & phys custodial reversals as well?

You have many, many issues here. I urge you to consult a lawyer . You have seen how things can get botched if you do not know what you are doing on...

Divorce was filed august 1 of 2016, wife cashed a joint insurance check 10/25/2016

you probably have some sort of insurance claim. Consider raising heck with insurance company for "accidentally forwarding" a joint check to wife. ...

My ex filed temporary custody 3 days after I left the country to get sober, can I get joint custody again now that I'm back?

you need to bring all court papers to an experienced lawyer for a consultation. Can't give any opinion on the few facts states stated in your post.

I want to retain my 401k and stocks in divorce. Possible?

See **** below. Both parties have well paying jobs currently. I was bread winner good part of 20 years and stuffed money into 401k....

I do not disagree with either post. But, also, you can list day care as 0 and then ask to deviate mother's income to reflect the her benefit. ...

Can a parent volunteer to sign their rights away?

The only realistic way is to have a new spouse or significant other do a step parent adoption

In a divorce can my husband leave me with nothing bc he is wealthier than me? What assets am I entitled to. We own 2 homes.

You are being bullied and controlled by husband. The LAST thing he wants is for you to know your rights. Consult with a lawyer and find out...

Do I need to supply my ex with documents he has requested?

You give hardly any facts, so answering is difficult. If you were served with an ORCP request for production, then, yes you have to respond to the...