Does this sound right at all?Am i only getting a small part of the real story?Is there a way to still be able t o see the kids

I suggest you meet with a family law attorney in in your area, this can be a very serious issue you best proceed with counsel.

Will he be notified if I file for a default. For him failing to file a response?

You must provide notice. I suggest you meet with a family law at to assist you in this matter.

Can i force a divorce if she doesnt agree

Yes it is possible to get the marriage annulled, you will need to show the you were unable to consent to the marriage probably due to intoxication....

Signed and mailed, if you have questions I'd suggest meeting with an attorney.

Do I have to let my daughter go even though dad is not there?

It depends what your parenting plan states, often the parenting plan contains a first right of refusal which allows the parent the option to care...

Can she do this

Most likely answer is no. But your question is very brief an lacks the necessary information to accurately analyze your situation. There are...

Will the judge consider recordings of conversations with children during custody trial? How do you present them to the judge?

Generally the rules of evidence don't apply in family law proceedings, but as my colleague points out there is very limited time to present your...

What does the judge consider when there is no proof of what is being reported? can the judge issue a decision based on no facts?

The judge will consider the facts presented through oral testimony. I suggest you meet with a family law attorney in your area, many attorneys...

What are the options here when we have multiple diagnoses and support of the school? Can he be forced to comply with treatment?

If neither party has final decision making authority you may need to attend mediation to determine whether the child shall take the medication. I...

I want full custody but still grant him with visitation. If he is already in a relationship will that matter in custody?

I suggest you meet with a family law attorney in your area, many attorneys including myself offer free 30 minute consultations. In your case you...