Will insurance company pay?

Go to Small claims court. Sue the driver. probably 50/50 liability unless you have some unusual facts and witnesses.

Is the collision shop responsible for damaging my car?

If you can prove the shop did the damage, you have a case. If not, you don't.

What happens after 90 days with no response from the court for a motion 2255?

This is a repost and it was recommended originally that you post in criminal defense.

Ask them why they think the 4 weeks isn't reasonable. You have to know their arguments to try to figure out if they are correct or not. Make sure...

Am I still required to carry an SR-22 3 years after accident?

If you are driving, you need insurance. Ho hard is it or how much more does it cost to have a SR 22?

Is it possible I may never be charged with a DWI?

Check with a local criminal defense atty. They may be backlogged on filing these cases, etc. See if there is anything else you can be doing to help...

Am I responsible?

Contact the motor vehicle licensing dept and see if she can remove her name from the car title. If she cant, she may need to buy liability ins to...

Can a 12 years old civil case be reopened after a default charges?

See a lawyer. The file needs to be looked at to see if you were sued, and if you were served.

Should I accept their low ball offer of $3500.00? When mechanical & cosmetic damages are $17,000 should the law firm offer?

A little unclear. You should have a lawyer if you are suing and dealing w/defense attys. Then proceed as directed by lawyers.

Contact a debt collection defense atty. They can attack the collector and judgment.