Should I cancel current child support order and sign a new private order for Child support owed to me?

Is your ex currently employed? Perhaps you may want to contemplate a wage garnishment.

Divorce in Ca. Who is responsible for the debt?

In the State of California, with respect to debts, all debts that are incurred during the marriage or before the marriage is the responsibility of...

How is child support determined when the paying parent lives in California and child lives in Dallas tx?

How long has the child lived in Dallas, Texas?

Will an attorney be able to help with getting the father served with child support papers?

You need to hire a licensed California Registered Process Server.

When figuring child support, how does one parent claim expenses (not child support) for a second child?

You should do your own dissomaster. With respect to your second child, that would be considered a "hardship."

I do not know. You should do your own dissomaster.

How much of a chance do I have to get shared custody or visitation rights of my daughter if my wife and I divorce?

In the State of California, with respect to child custody and visitation, the court will make its determination based upon the best interest(s) of...

Would I be able to get full custody of my baby?

Were you or are you and your baby's father married or unmarried to one another?

Is he able to take him without my consent?

With respect to your son, what do you mean by the opposing party just being able to take your son without your consent? Are you talking about out...

May I record a conversation I'm having with my daughters and fiancee without my children's consent?

No, because California is a two (2) party consent state, pursuant to California Penal Code Section 632.