How long for an uncontested Divorce in California?

Yes, it will take a minimum of six months.

Yes, absolutely. Each parent with legal custody has the legal right to make those decisions.

Husband is going to have to file a request for order to modify the restraining order if it is permanent and will have to present evidence of...

Can I file for termination of parental rights?

Yes you can -- but expect an uphill battle. Courts are hesitant to terminate rights -- even for a deadbeat parent. If the father checks into...

In the Bay Area I recommend Dr. John Orlando in San Jose. Very thorough and well presented.

My ex husband is not following the non modifiable spousal support order. He is 6 months behind totally 9000.00.

You have filed for contempt -- which is the right thing to do. You should also contact a service that can do an asset search for your husband. ...

What are the benefits of gaining full custody and how to get or what do I need to prove?

File a request for order to make the temporary custody permanent. If the request is opposed and the Court is hesitant, ask for a custody...

Which parent has the child on that particular day?

The parent who is to have the child on Halloween should have the child on Halloween. That parent has priority.

Could a spouse follow you (assuming you left and rented a new home) if she cannot pay her rent and gets kicked out?

No, you have a right to separate based on "irreconcilable differences" and other reasons. File for legal separation or divorce. Open a new bank...

Can I file for full custody of my daughter while her father is in prison?

Yes -- given these facts, you should seek full custody as soon as possible in addition to a restraining order.