I'm in PRO PER in guardianship case I decided now I need an attorney can I ask the court to postpone for my attorney ?

It appears that you need, and will get, a continuance with the children remaining with their grandmother until the continued hearing. In addition...

In re: RFO to modify existing order (divorce) a trial is set following hearing, is the moving party required to attend trial?

Yes. You should review this superseding State Rule of Court: http://www.courts.ca.gov/cms/rules/index.cfm?title=five&linkid=rule5_9 Yes, if...

How do i legally keep my mom ashes

You should consult your Mom's estate plan first to see what its documents say about this.

OSC re: findings and order after hearing

It appears that the air is still toxic there. Anywhere else a transcript of hearing would be used to show what should be in the order. ...

Do i have the right to my deceased mothers belongings?

They may be right. You don't have the right to trample over the roommates' lives and privacies. There is a collection process that may be...

Service of Subpoena to Attorney in Family Case for Civil Filing

Only if that attorney accepts service on defendant's behalf. You want to find that out in advance.

The mother has no home, she is staying in hotel

Noted. Noted. Noted. Noted. Noted. Noted.

Can back pay be forgiven?

Yes. But, the situation must be handled appropriately.

Can child support worked out between the divorcing spouse w/o going to court to collect?

You can even get a Court order establishing the terms for child support without requiring service of a wage assignment to collect on it. The...

I would at least put the facts to him in writing (e.g., E-mail) and await his responses. There could be extenuating circumstances, or he could...