Jail is for misdemeanors or pretrial detention and we have no sense of how long he'll be incarcerated weather in jail or prison and while he's...

What should I do to document custody has really been 75/25 And not 50/50

Keep a custody log. Send him a report from time to time reciting events; his silence would be an admission to the accuracy of your report. Try...

I was served 5 days after mediation date

That should be pointed out to the Mediator and the Court. You'll need a new mediation date but possibly the Mediator can arrange it before the...

What would somebody be charged if they tried to comitt theft?and what would be the charges & sentencing?

This is clearly not a P.I. matter. I decline further comment.

Can I ask the court room give me a couple of says to turn myself into get my affairs in order

Yes. This is not a family law issue.

I am on mso and left the program on December 5th it's my first time violating how much time am I looking at?

I refuse to guess at unnecessary abbreviations like "MSO". Regardless, this is a criminal defense question to take up with your paid,...

Can a spouse issued a TRO/kick-out order receive living expenses reimbursement from the other spouse?

The person in the home normally gets its benefit and burdens, and the out spouse normally gets credit for some/all of payments made on the family...

No. Your RO will remain in effect unless or until there is an agreement or hearing to change it.

What can I do if the man I’m living with refuses to wear clothes around my 14 yr old daughter?

You can try calling the police but you can certainly divorce him.

How can I protect myself and my children from an abusive husband?

I just suggest that you seek free assistance from the San Diego Family Justice Center.