Should I take kids father back to court for 30%, and enforce orders given?

Open a case with your County's Dept. of Child Support Services. The agency will save you and your X a lot of money and expertly obtain and enforce...

It appears to me from your admission that you are negligent. This is a public forum. Please delete your comment if you can and don't put any more...

I’m planning on going to the desert, what if my ex shows up who is the petitioner? Do I have to leave?

You imply that there is some type of stayaway order. You'll have to read it and (if desired) share it. No one here knows from your post the terms...

At risk of loosing my family home.

Your post is far from clear to me. So, I'll only say that you to obtain (unless you already have them) and enforce adequate orders.

You reach out to the lawyers. You should have an agent; your agent can do so.

Do I need a lawyer with 3 houses, a successful business w/ 40+ employees, a discrepancy of $100,000 annual salary in CA & son?

You would be foolish not to fully involve a lawyer. Interview several.

I recommend family therapy with all 5 participating. If Dad or Step-Mom refuse, then I'd have your child get a therapist to help her cope and try...

Can I sue for getting hit in the head by a firework as a kid at a SD padres baseball game?

Your mother and father weren't mentioned. There certainly seems to be a tripartite parenting deficit. You may have been negligent in not...

Can a 730 evaluation be requested after a 3111 evaluation?

I am not ethically comfortable assisting a party in self-representation in such a complex, consequential situation, nor will I assist in the blind...

Can I get 100% legal custody and cut down visitation?

You can do so but I question incurring the headache and (if a lawyer is involved) the expense. But, it appears to me that Dad has a mental health...