Can I sue?

I concur with the opinions of my Avvo colleagues. You have damages but apparently well within the jurisdiction of Small Claims Court. Under your...

Is it legal for the primary earning spouse to withhold food and other necessities?

No. It is a violation of his fiduciary duties to you. You need for him to have a more conscious attitude and behavior. You also need access to...

. i filed for divorce , can I leave with kid now?

I recommend that you get help from the Family Justice Center in San Diego to address his domestic abuse. Divorce and custody issues should be...

Does the court consider a parent committing perjury and forgery good reason to stop visitation?

Get real. The Criminal Court will host any proof (conviction) for which he is to be busted. Then, you take that proof to Family Court. The...

How can I find out if my parents divorce was final and if my father is legally remarried?

I skipped through most of your post, at it isn't relevant. You find the Courthouse where the divorce proceeding was pending and check the file to...

I filed a request to enter default and neither party recieved notice of a Self Represented Family Resolution Conference

Check with the Clerk. My guess is that the Clerk is typically inefficient with a backlog and once getting to your matter will process it...

Emergency custody, legal custody, physical custody.

You don't need an order for supervised/no visitation if he won't show up. But, since it seems that he sporadically does show up, I'd get an order....

I will not enable you acting on a mere internet conversation to make such an important decision. Defamation is a "disfavored tort" because of the...

I am currently being evicted, my question is can I give power of attorney to my father so he can appear on my behalf?

No. You can appear via an attorney at law or by telephone (with Court permission) but cannot testify except in person or by telephone (with Court...

Subpoena?

I recommend that you meet with the free Family Law Facilitator at your Courthouse who can advise you in real time with access to the Court's file.