What can I do plain n simply to come up with something to get rid of her pls help?

This horribly misformatted and substantively unclear. I suggest rewriting it or meeting with a lawyer in person.

Can my ex with hold my children if he was denied right of first refusal?

From what little I read here, no. Ideally, your orders should be clear on this. Half-sibling bonding is precious in Family Court and families.

Does my husband have to serve me in person for a TRO? Is the service I received proper service?

You failed to identify what document pertains to "I received a service". Maybe you are correct but won't be able to prove it, or maybe you are...

What can I do when ex refuses to follow order?

The order states that on Sundays you are to pick your child up from his house. And, he is refusing to follow the order saying that I have no...

The Clerk should be smart enough to not file, and to return to you, the interrogatories and interrogatory answers.

Hire a lawyer?

It's like most childsharing issues, i.e., you should negotiate and if thereafter necessary litigate. Your current schedule came from somewhere;...

How do I ask for proof my ex wife understated income I "know" she is making but ins't reporting (taxes, etc) in Family Law?

You have to get her 1099 forms not her W-2s since this is supposedly independent contractor pay. She's supposed to provide it anyway in...

Will changing my name affect and or void a restraining order I placed on a family member ?

Just get your restraining order updated as to your new name when you obtain it.

How can I visit my niece and nephew?

You have no lawful right to see the children except with the permission of their parents so long as they have parental rights. If your sister is...

Would my aunt be able to apply for any aid?

Presumably she can seek child support in a Mexican Court. I am not licensed there and, so, I have no further comment on that. She can seek...