I have a 12 year old daughter that im trying to renew her passport?

This is not a question involving immigration law.

DS160: Has anyone ever filed an immigrant petition on your behalf with the United States Citizenship and Immigration Services?

File for the DS-160 now and that way will not have to answer "yes". Ask your company not to file that I-140 until after you underwent your B-1/B-2...

What if I do not have my birth certificate at the day of my interview for my spouse in English only in Spanish?

A valid US passport will be enough proof of your citizenship if you are the USC petitioner. If not, then make sure to have that citizen cert. or...

Can i ask for a tourist visa. ? For my wife? From Philippines to usa.

I wouldn't bother. There is no way she will be approved.

Should I withdraw my asylum application?

In our office we always recommend withdrawing a pending asylum application only after having obtained an approval of the I-485.

Can my wife travel to the US with Visitor visa (B2)?

Highly unpredictable in this situation. Consult with an experienced lawyer in private via Skype.

When should I submit i130 bona fide evidence?

Our office typically submits such evidence at the time of the interview.

Form N470 after submitting naturalization application?

I agree. Go ahead and submit that Form N-470 now, prior to traveling/remaining abroad for your US employer.

Can my federal probation officer restrict who I can talk to without them being involved in criminal activity?

Not an immigration law question. Post elsewhere.

Go ahead and apply for naturalization under the 5 year rule. Enter "married" until divorce becomes final.