Put your specific requests and questions to your attorney in writing and deliver the request by fax and certified mail return receipt.

You can have your file provided to you on a written request. Note, the attorney might have a lien on the case for work already done.

More facts would be needed. In the circumstances that you describe, the financial losses may not warrant a malpractice lawsuit.

It may be possible to consult with an ethics specialists by directly reaching out to them.

There are doctors who do this work. You may want to hire an attorney to assist in this process.

Find lawyers who sue Kaiser for malpractice.

Possibly. To have a viable case there would have to be a breach in the standard of care and harm sufficient to warrant a malpractice lawsuit.

Please repost identifying what question you have on this situation.

Idaho law would determine what rights adoptive, or would be adoptive parents may have.

Yes. And get the necessary independent medical care by specialists.