You can ask for verification but it would be an unusual request.

You still owe the loan. The may work with you until you get a new job.

Consult with a criminal law specialist. Use the Avvo search tool to find an attorney. https://www.avvo.com/find-a-lawyer.

No, the Attorney may not make such decisions without client consent.

You need an experienced attorney to review the file.

Yes you can request it. Discuss the findings with your attorney.

If e-mail is regularly used in the case, unless there is reason otherwise, Courts usually allow ex parte notice via e-mail.

Check the court website to see if that information appears online.

Yes you must oppose the motion/demurrer in writing.

Yes. Unless there was something changed such as the appearance date.