What are my options?

I agree with the other attorneys who answered this question.

My Ex has in the past wrote to me, that she only wanted the past due Child support amount balance, not the interest

Child support is for the child. If DCSS is involved the other parent doesn't have the right to stipulate to a support reduction.

Need to extend spousal support

File an agreement in writing with the court.

Is child neglect considered to be a criminal charge? How should I search for a lawyer?

The court should appoint you an attorney at the first hearing. You can also hire a private attorney.

I'm getting a divorce. Does my ex have any rights to my house?

He is entitled to half of any community property funds spent on the house (mortgage, construction, up-keep, etc).

Can I stop children from riding dirt bike on road pass my home

Call law enforcement about the speeding. Talk to them. If that doesn't work, talk to their parents.

How can i get this passed me and my son back

Something seems off here. Talk to your juvenile dependency attorney and go to the court to get Exit Orders if the case is really closed.

Yes, the children have a professional advocate who can help assess the situation and make a determination. If two were not present and one was...

You are free to make your own decisions but as an adult, your decisions may have consequences. Are you still living at your mom's house? So you...

What do I do to get a copy of my mothers Will/trust, my mother has Alzheimer/Dimentia

Contact law enforcement and talk to them about the Elder Abuse your mom is facing. Document all abuse and neglect.