I think I need help on how to show the Court that my ex husband should have either WAY less or no parenting time?

Definitely sounds like you need an experienced family law attorney as you already have your hands full taking care of your family.

My husband wants a divorce and is active duty how would alimony and child support work and could I get full custody ?

Yes, yes and yes. Make sure you hire a family law attorney familiar with military divorces.

Could I apply for citizenship if filing for divorce?

Great immigration question. Unless there are pressing issues, what is the harm in waiting a few months?

Can I be sued if my son with a mental illness hurts someone on my property?

Yikes! Great civil litigation question. If he was invited into the property, there may be some liability. Talk to your homeowners insurance asap.

Fl-300 Request for Orders. State your facts and allow plenty of time for the court to make an order.

Nope. Finances are not a consideration in custody.

Am I in the wrong for not allowing more time with the father and not allowing him to take him to Hawaii

Never parent by guilt rather what is best for your child and the attitude of the ex. Plenty of beautiful beaches here in California.

Fl-300 Request for Orders. Available online.

How does a paternal grandmother request visitation with her grandchildren. Her 6 grandchildren lived with her since birth

I concur with my colleague. Best of luck.

Reg. Green Card for Family

Great immigration law question. Best of luck.