Big custody changes require big reasons. School grades alone would not be sufficient I think. As long as the rest of the child's life is good,...

Will i be forced to pay arrears that potentially accumulated during the time I did not pay support but had both children with me

You don't make it clear if this is a California order, or from "out of state" that you mention. In California, the Jackson case should protect...

Child support is based strictly on a rigid formula, based on your income, the other parent's income and the custody timeshare, period. It will be...

1- should I file a contempt? 2-Can we increase the amount of child support to my benefit, for the reason above?

Child support is always modifiable when the income numbers change. I'd forget a contempt for now and consult with experienced family law counsel...

Do you think the judge will grant me physical and legal custody? (solo custody)

You need to consult with experienced family law counsel ASAP. His living with you substantially damages any claim you may have that he is "unfit"...

Why can we not file for summary of marriage dissolution?Which kind of divorce should we do?And how long it'll take to be final?

The simple answer is "Because that is the law". You can still do any easy uncontested divorce case. Find a good local family law lawyer with a...

Would child support seize me ? Would they adjust his child support cause if we get married I'm also working.?

His child support is based solely on his income, not yours. You cannot be held responsible for it, but if you put your money in is name (like a...

Can mother still collect welfare for a child she lost custody of and can't even make her scheduled visitions?

No. I assume nobody has told Welfare she doesn't have custody of the first child.

How can I get the other parent to comply with court order regarding communication?

The usual Wizard order also says that the parties are not to use any other form of communication, except in a true emergency. If he violates that...

Can the real birth father go after the child and the adopted parents, even though he abandoned both me and his child.

"Ah what a web we weave . . ." I suggest you consult with experienced adoption counsel. After six years the likelihood if the legal adoption...