Is it a conflict when your Probation officer is related to your co defendant whom in which told on you?

Sounds like a conflict to me. Just need to convince probation and or the courts that your case should be handled by someone else

Typically the surviving spouse gets half, the children all split the remaining half equally. That is of course absent any other legal documents...

How do I get on the calendar to speak to Judge Regarding a case 9 years old?

If you want to place a case on calendar go to the courthouse and speak to the clerks. They'll either see you that day or give you a date to return.

How long does a case like this take and what do you advice me to do?

Advice for your son is to not speak to the authorities without an attorney. Cases like this can take a while b fore charges are brought forth. ...

I found out today I have a warrant from 2013 it's a felony charge for burglary if I go to the court can they keep me

Consult with an attorney asap. The laws have change since then, Depending on the actual charge that you pled to, you might face minimal consequences.

You fight this by hiring an experienced local attorney. He/she can explore potential 4th amendment violations etc. best of luck

Can a 17 year old press charges against someone?

She can certainly report this to the authorities, she does not need her parents' consent for this.

Can they use your record when you were a minor?

It is my understanding that Juvenile priors cannot be counted as priors. You need to consult with an attorney asap.

Can a lawyer help reduce time of an inmate in prison ?

Probably not, unless there was a problem with the way the case was resolved.

Will i be sent to jail right after sentencing hearing?

Im assuming you have an attorney, he/she is in the best position to guide and he/she likely knows the local practice.