It is NOT upto you to decide whether to press charges. The minute you called it in, it became the DAs decision. If you want to help him, get him...

To answer your question directly, yes that “can” happen when a deal is reached. Beyond that, it’s impossible to say anything about the case,...

Is it normal for charges to change if you bail out of jail?

Whether it’s normal or Not, that’s good news for you.

Typically they get 6month extensions. But they can make the request more than once

Is it legal for a lawyer representing someone who attacked me to contact me prior to a criminal case?

Am attorney, may contact you, but cannot harass you.

Call a different bail bondsman. Otherwise it’s impossible To say

My laptop is with my ex-gf and not sure how to get it back.

You can call the authorities.

My court paperwork was unclear of what I needed to complete

Sounds like you may be better served by hiring an attorney. Unfortunately because we were not present for your case we do not know IF you...

Can I honestly change my statement on a complaint I filed for spousal abuse

In addition to the prior comment, if you truly want to help him, talk to his attorney first.

When excepting a plea and the judge explains all the terms of the deal

At this point you’ll have to wait to Monday to contact the court and or your attorney