Why would the DA not take the case. This person needs a an attorney, especially if the DV was fueled by alcohol.

How to prove my innocence ?

You start by hiring at attorney. Hire one experienced in similar cases

How do I know if there are charges pressed against me?

You can call the DAs office, or you can go to the courts website and input your name and dob and it’ll pull up any active cases

My boyfriend is in custody in SB county but has a court date next week in OC that he is going to miss..what does he do?

His attorney in OC can appear for him.

That depends if the victim still calls the cops and asks that the person be arrested

How Much it cost for Sealing Arrest Records I'm not convicted , also I have a copy of The District Attorney letter

You have to contact attorneys directly to get a quote. Best of luck

No. But at arraignment you will be provided with a public defender

How do i go about a benchwarrant?

You should talk to an attorney directly. You’ll have several options, post bail, turn yourself in to name a few.

He has an attorney to represent him. Express your concerns to him/her

Can I reduce or expunge my felony conviction?

Most courts, require you complete half of your probation. That is not a stead fast rule, just the norm.