What would the division of assets be (the two properties in his name alone the wife helped pay off)

Probate may/not be necessary, depending on how title is held. Some important preliminary questions: Status of probate administration in each...

What happens to my living trust after divorced in California?

Yes. Trust remains in effect until revoked or amended. Additionally, wills, POA's. other estate planning documents remain in effect until...

(1) What all parties need to be served? (2) What docs need to be served? [see above]

Notice all beneficiaries, trustee(s), interested parties. Ex parte notice usually provided by phone. Check local rules regarding notice...

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How do I take over as trustee while dad is alive?

Carefully review the POA's and trust for agent and successor trustee provisions. If father has capacity, not much you can do. If father lacks...

How much does something like this typically cost?

Retain probate counsel in NY to process NY probate and coordinate Korean process. Father's probate required in jurisdiction in which he was...

What kind of attorney would my dad hire to take possession of his property, or at least force a sale, for a life estate?

Father should retain wills, trust and probate counsel.

I want tk revoke all. power of attoneys.

Yes. You may revoke POA's. Best to take some precautions including, not limited to; -etain counsel to draft and disseminate the...

Brother may have stole my id.Can they transfer my property to them.

Maybe. However, other people would have to cooperate in fraudulent transfer. I have seen it done. Retain probate counsel to assist you in damage...

Can my dad still sign a check on his account if he gave me power of attorney?

Yes. If father still has capacity to execute checks, he may do so. Appointing an agent by POA does not deprive the principal of right to act on...

How can I stop being harassed and get on with my life?

Impossible to answer your question based on lack of specific information provided. Retain probate counsel to review matter and advise how to proceed.