If I own an apartment building, Id like the pros/cons to having it as an LLC. Also what I could expect to have to title docs etc

LLC may provide some asset protection benefits. LLC requires annual fees to remain in good standing. Single owner LLC more easily pierced to...

Do you think the nephew have the paperwork from when his uncle was the undertaker and how do i go about obtaining information.

Maybe/not. No opinion on whether nephew has the paperwork you seek. Easiest way to determine answer is to ask nephew if he has the paperwork.

Estate is in New York. How do I get my brother to give control to alternate trustee, can I get trust monitored, & how much $

You may file petition with court to remove trustee and appoint successor trustee.

Yes. Capacity can be regained and legal capacity status can be restored. Does happen. If you have been determined to lack capacity, you may file...

Whether i will be kicked out from nursing home if my medicaid application denied?

Maybe not. Possible to qualify if you complete divorce and remove H assets from consideration. If you have right to use H assets, there may be no...

How do I secure the property in my name or if I die my wife gets the property that's legally binding.

No. A "notary public from both" is all you need to secure rights in property. May/not be of any benefit. Yes. There are options to buy out all...

What can you advise me as how to prepare for when the inheritance arrives and what I should do regarding my govt assistance?

Yes. Depending on other income you receive and assets you currently own, receipt of inheritance of size stated my impact eligibility to continue...

What are the estimated court fees for probate? In what order do the court fees come? i.e.; starting probate, administration

Estimated fees and costs follow: $435 Filing Fee -paid at time petition is filed; $200 to $500 -Publication Fee paid immediately after petition...

See above:) Do I need an attorney?

Yes. You need an attorney. Yes. Your attorney may make bank pay your attorney fees and costs if bank not acting reasonably. Review POA with EP...

Is this Elder Abuse?

Yes. Immediate call to APS needed. Friend should also revoke her POA's immediately. Consult elder law counsel for assistance.