I have trial date Sep 27 orange county court, and I cant make I live in Sacramento!!!

You can also ask if the court will allow you to appear by phone. Do it asap.

What is deemed as "low or no cost"?

Ask your ex to pay one half and if it is refused take them back to court and ask for 1/2 and attorneys fees

If a spouse is only working 20 hours a week and making $450/month, can she request attorney fees under family code 2030?

Can you prove she can work more hours? That she can obtain higher pay?

My daughter was emotionally and verbally abused by a caretaker in a group home. We have complained previously about it.

See an attorney in your area preferably one who understands elder abuse or ADA.

How old is your oldest, and do you mean kicked?

Sure, it was already spent on the child.

My daughter is 15 and does not want to go on visitation anymore with her dad i have phycisal custody of her

That is between her and her father. He is risking alienating her, she will be able to decide when she is 18, perhaps he should understand that the...

My portion of my military spousal retirement pay decreased by $150 per month this year after 15 years. What can I do ?

You need to contract the VA and ask them for an answer, asap.

Whose children? Yours and your ex wife, or hers and her new spouse? Consult an attorney

NCP abducts child and then demands agreement to enroll child in private behavioral class's and CP to pay for it.

Hire an attorney, do not agree to anything