Can I ask the courts to remove a hardship deduction when determining child support?

You can ask...but she really should get credit for it if she is raising another child and not receiving any support for that child; the court...

What is the actual ate of separation? Am I entitled to half of his savings and checkings along with half of the house?

You will be entitled to 1/2 his checking & savings on 'date of separation' but unlikely to get 1/2 house but it will depend on when it was...

I want to move with my dad or grandma just as long as its away from my mom

You can't do anything other than ask your dad if he would be willing to file a Request for Order with the court to modify or change custody. If...

Is there anything that I can still do despite me being considered an adult regarding the child support owed by to me by my dad?

The support would not have been paid to you, but to your mother for taking care of you. As other posted suggested, if there was a court order,...

What comes next,

Here's an overview of the process: http://www.courts.ca.gov/1225.htm

Does this mean the custody agreement we have is invalid?? How does it just close?

I suggest going to the court filing window and asking to see the case file; review it and see if it actually is dismissed because it is unusual...

Can I leave the kid with our nanny for one week? Will he file any bad accuse against me because of this?

He might, but he's being unreasonable if he won't let you take her, yet he refuses to care for her. He's unlikely to be successful under these facts.

No - it means that the court default clerk received your Judgment pkg, and it included the Declaration for Default / Uncontested which was filed...

Can I break a 1 year lease if my name is on the deed, but I gave the house away in my divorce?

No - assuming his name is also on the deed; the divorce didn't nullify your claim because you didn't have a claim - either of you signing the...

Decrease child support.

You cannot add GF's income but you can argue for lesser hardship deduction - the deduction is 'discretionary' (meaning that the judge does not have...