If it’s deposit accounts, ask court for a 13100 declaration that the two of you can sign.

It has to be filed in the guardianship case - especially if child still lives in AZ

You apparently were unable to convince the judicial officer of the truth of your allegations, and the fact that he doesn’t have a job and that he...

Have your husband file for step-parent adoption; dad’s inaction meets your statutory criteria.

The Judge will decide based on the best interest of the child - not unrelated discussions between the parents.

Is there a community interest in the benefit? if so, you will have to have a Qualified Domestic Relations Order prepared or trade something for her...

…and you don’t hav to wait to serve a subpoena but without representation you’ll have to get the court clerk to sign it.

You need to petition the court for a Civil Harassment Restraining Order; here’s a link to info: https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/CH-restraining-order

You are replaying the state for money provided to your brother when you were unable to care for your child; You might want to contact the agency...

It’s probably not ex parte - but file a Request for Order for joint legal custody; however, it sounds like she is reaching out for your agreement...