What can I do? Should I call and complain? How can I make sure the restaurant will get a first aid kit?

The real question is why the pole cut her. I agree restaurants should have FA kits; I'd bet most do. Contact a local PI lawyer to pursue a claim.

Can I sue a Dr. For messing up my thigh muscle during hip replacement.

This isn't enough information, but you do have a SOL problem. Talk to a local med mal lawyer and see if they can help.

Usually one year, though there are ways around that.

Regarding my vehicle a total lost

Your lawyer should know this.

I was hit by a big rig on the freeway 2 months ago my vehicle was a total lost I haven't been back to work since it happen 9/20

"Second opinion?" You hired a lawyer. Trust him or her.

IF U IGNORE A LAWSUIT FOR THE AMOUNT OF 4200. CAN THEY TAKE A JUDGMENT AGISNT U

Yes.

Listen to yourself: she "...knows how to cut safely?" So she self-injures, but it's totally OK because she's really, really good at it? That's...

If you're injured, seek medical attention and a PI lawyer in your area. If you're not hurt, it's not really much of a case.

Can I sue SLAPP filing attorney for defamation, malicious prosecution fraud and abuse of process

More facts are needed as a lot of your post contains conclusions but not facts. You don't even say what exact conduct you were sued for, i.e. what...

Do I have to continue making payments on my car that was broadsided by another driver who ran a red light?

Probably. Talk to your lender.