What is a smart way to negotiate how to divide jointly accrued debt if one person is not asking for spousal support?

I agree with all 3 answers. , You may be able o negotiate with him to have him pay off all the credit card debt in exchange for your not asking...

In addition to what both attorneys said, the person who keeps the car should pay the lease.

My husband was retired by his job at 59 & given his pension but chose not to get another job does that make me exempt from alimo

The count can impute income to him plus it will consider his retirement and Pension income for support, If you make more then him you could owe...

Am I entitled to equity that the condo earned during our Marriage even though he purchased it 3 yrs before?

The answer to the highlighted question is no.

Can client get their money back from their attorney if attorney didn't do their job (file paperwork by due date)?

Yes she can and if he doesnt pay her pack she can sue him for malpractice.

What happens if I get my GF pregnant, but the divorce is not final yet?

California is a no fault state, so it shouldn't effect you. But you can't marry her ( if you want to) until your Divorce is final.

All 3 of the other answers are absolutely correct. You are the one who has to move your case along. You should have a conversation with a lawyer.

Alimony?

Do you have in writing that she did not want you to pay her? If not you still owe it.

Regarding QDRO, can I file 271 Sanctions by myself if my Ex does not sign and my attorney is not cooperating?

It takes awhile for the Courts web cite to reflect filed documents. You cant file a Request for Sanctions yourself while you are represented...

In A California divorce, can a Real Estate attorney represent a party?

Any licensed attorney in California can represent anyone in California in any type of matter.