Also file an Order ToShow Cause for Contempt

It depends on if he has already served you. If not you can but serve him before he serves u.

File for Divorce and then buy it. That way if you are using your separate property she can't validly claim an interest in it.

Ask him if he divorced you and if he says yes ask him to send you a copy of the divorce decree or Judgment. If he hasn’t you perhaps should file...

Call the Court Clerk or call your former attorney and ask them.

Get an attorney ASAP and file for Divorce.

Your attorney can serve him by publication.

Ask your attorney or his who prepared it. Otherwise wait until the divorce is filed and see if he brings it up.

You need to get an attorney to represent you

Get or visit an attorney now! The attorney can get more facts from you and tell you what needs to be done.