Can I hire a lawyer to attend with me mediation for child custody?

If it is a FMC court mediation, attorneys are not permitted.

Regarding the legality of conduct by a person serving Divorce papers is it lawful for the person to have the wife to be made

I usually advise people not to question the manner of service. If you know about it, acknowledge it and participate. Playing the "I was not...

A child of that age takes their cues from their parent(s). If he is kicking and screaming it is likely because you are not encouraging the visit...

Do I need a custody/visitation agreement in NV if we were never married?

Based on what you have outlined, custody jurisdiction would be in NV and he would need to file a custody action in NV. He could ask for and at some...

How do I find out if I'm still married? It's my first time going through this and don't know where to begin.

Have you gotten divorced? If not, then you are still married.

Do I have options to go back to court, If I'm concerned for my child?

You always have the option to go back to court and child custody orders are always modifiable. What you do not have the option to do is keep...

Can a private process server lie on their affidavit of attempted service?

The most prudent thing to do is just accept service and get involved in the process.

Can I take my daughter on vacation out of state on her dad's visitation time?

Yes, that is exactly what that means. He can also do it to you too.

Is cheating on your wife enough grounds to have the mother take custody of minor child? she has rights but no custody.

I would not focus on "Cheating." Exposure to inappropriate behavior is an issue but not sure you have enough here.

How can I file for divorce if my spouse disappeared on me???

You do not need him to file You can file on your own and make a good faith effort to locate him for service. If you cannot locate him, you can ask...