How to start the legal process if brought here as a child?

I agree more analysis is needed. Consult with an immigration lawyer.

If I petition for my sister

Yes and any minor children.

I am in the military and have a child wanted to know how much my ex gets when we divorce?

She will not receive 80 percent of your check. generally, each state has a formula for determining support. She may be entitled for some spousal...

I want to know if is true that when you have a amount of year working in the.same place you are elegible for resident ?

An employer can petition you starting with labor certification. Working somewhere by itself does nothing for you.

If I petition for my sister

10= years for most countries. 20+ if from Philippines. Marriage does not have an effect.

My baby's mother driving using an international driver's license while she is illigal.

Each state has different laws regarding intl or foreign dl. I am not sure what it is in NJ. Any NJ lawyers

You can defend yourself. In many cases, you can be appointed a lawyer if you cannot afford one.

In divorce, will my husband's insurance still cover me? Also, will money I inherited (in my own account) be "shared"?

inheritance is separate unless you commingled. Insurance after the divorce is something for the court to decide.

If petitioner has a domestic violence report and a limited restraining order could wife still be denied at stokes interview?

This is very complicated. You should hire an experienced immigration lawyer to assist you.

Citizen eligibility - continuous residence

Certainly you should apply. The worst that can happen is they say no and you can reapply later.