Petition the Court for the change. The court will most likely order you both attend mediation.

How do I file for Mediation?

Most courts require mediation pretty soon after filing a complaint. To get court ordered mediation look at your order. Does it say have to try...

How long does a temporary no contact order last in family law it's been 18 months and it was only mention to be a temp I believe

Read the order and it will have very specific dates that it is valid. Also make sure you do not make same mistake again to support another order :)

What can i do and what is my options. Also is there a stipulation on what child support is used for? What are my rights

Hire an attorney to protect your rights. Just because she alleges you make more and she wants more... that does not mean the Court thinks you earn...

What rights does my son have to those kids. She won't allow him to see them w/o making an appointment. He has been a good father

Sounds like your son may need to petition the court for primary custody the child asap. Those situations can get really ugly really fast!

Are there any lawyer's that work with Low income families?

I am sure you can contact your state legal aid services. They also have names of attorneys that can work for payments etc.

Can I be adopted while in a current family?

contact an attorney is your best bet.

How much does this family attorney cost

Depends on case and complication of the case. Most attorneys are by the hour ranging from 150-450 an hour.

What are my rights and does this interfere with joint legal custody?

If you share legal custody then you are entitled to contribute to the decision on what schools, etc your children attend. He most likely violated...

What can I do to protect my wife and property from this family, who I believe is terrorizing her, while I'm gone?

File trespass notice with local police and then possible civil protection order.