Is my dad correct? Can I give them some "hush money" every couple months until I sell? Is the 6mo expenses the total expenses?

Sorry to say, Dad is wrong, at least as to the legal point. As a practical matter, if you make a few payments, the HOA might not go further, but...

Unlikely it will be reported to the credit agencies, but as others have stated, the debt is likely non-dischargeable as it will be viewed as a debt...

How would I go about getting full custody of my son in the state of Colorado? And am I legally aloud to leave this state?

You need to speak confidentially with a family law attorney in CO. There is too much to unpack and a fair bit of risk in your situation to address...

Can I cite that 11 USC SEC 1301 protects me under the codebtor stay against negative credit reporting?

Generally, one thing, the co-debtor stay, has nothing to do with the other, credit reporting. The issue with credit reporting is whether the entry...

How common are contingency fee agreements in Fair Debt Collection Practices Act cases? FCCPA cases?

You need an attorney for the lawsuit in which the plaintiff is suing, not FDCPA. As James points out, this is not an FDCPA issue, so your question...

Can they legally keep harassing my child and test him for Special Education based on their findings only?

That situation is far too much to unpack in a public, general information, forum like this one. Speak to an education lawyer IN YOUR STATE about...

Do I have a base for a kind of wrongful case here. Everything seems very shady...

Unfortunately, your description leaves much to be desired, the situation is not clear. What would help is for you to organize your facts...

What kind of attorney would I contact to help me in this kind of situation?

These are tough situations. Odds are, your school has a bullying policy and you are required to follow it. On the flip side, there is only so much...

Do I need a lawyer? Can a lawyer help me?

As Bryan suggest, this situation is not specific to education law. If you have an attorney, discuss it with them. If you need different expertise,...

Is an attorney entitled to bill for time and travel costs to and from a hearing when the attorney already withdrew from the case

Short answer yes, long answer, depends. This is what I think happened. You said the case ended with a settlement. That means the court case...