Did your lease require renters insurance? Does the complex have an insurance policy (yes)? Did the upstairs nieghbor have renters...

Needs more detail.... did you live there? How long? At some point the assumptiin is that you knew and accepted.

Make a writen agreement with her so there is no misunderstanding about anyones obligations... or ask her to leave if you arent happy

Depends... are you using it as a debit card or a Visa/Mastercard debit.... it is not uncommon for vendors to charge a service fee to offset thier...

First, the notice and eviction you are talking about at the end relates to trash left out... you just extrapotate it to the dog issue... Second...

Speak with a local landlords attny... this is not elder abuse just because you are elderly, its just a tenant working the system.

Ummm maybe so that it appears in court after the protection ends rather then waiting till it ends, then filing, and then waiting for a court date.

At some point the failire to enforce rules on other tenants can breach your warranty of quiet enjoyment, but also (and you may want to point this...

Depends on whether you were guests or tenants at the time... tenants have rights to occupy, guests generally do not.

The details here would be important here, but generally speaking she would be giving up her time to provide care and entitled to compensation for...