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Jamie Lynn Heggy Graham

Family Attorney at San Antonio, TX

4.5   14 reviews

also known as Jamie L. Graham, Jamie L. Graham

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  • Licensed for 23 years
    State TX
    Acquired 2000
    Eligible to Practice in Texas No misconduct found

We have not found any instances of professional misconduct for this lawyer.

About Jamie

Learn Jamie’s areas of practice.

Practice areas
  1. Child custody

  2. Child support

  3. Divorce and separation

  4. Family
    Many lawyers will tell you to trust them, but we know that trust has to be earned. In divorce and family law cases, which often begin because trust has been broken, this is even more important. At the San Antonio law firm of Jamie Graham & Associates, PLLC, we earn your trust through honest, skilled and diligent representation. We earn it by learning about your specific situation and objectives, and then putting in the hours of work necessary to achieve your goals.

    24 years

  5. Uncontested divorce


"I know there is no way to repair the damage after a bitter divorce, especially one involving children.

When I was young, I saw my parents go through a very nasty divorce. It had a profound effect on me, and I became a family law attorney to help others, especially children, avoid going through that experience, if possible."

Military divorce lawyer, Jamie Graham

We are Jamie Graham & Associates, PLLC, and our law firm is dedicated to helping men and women throughout the San Antonio area in divorce and other family matters where one spouse is in the military.

Our family law attorney, Jamie Graham, has more than twenty years of legal experience and a well-earned reputation for excellence. Most of our business comes to us through referrals from our clients and, many times, from the former spouses of our clients.

You can rely on receiving accurate information and experienced advice from Ms. Graham. Our goal is to ensure that you have the information and advice you need to make informed decisions throughout the family law process.

To schedule a confidential consultation with an experienced military divorce lawyer, 
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For some additional information about us and our qualifications, visit our Benefits of Retaining Jamie Graham & Associates, PLLC page.

Experienced San Antonio Military Divorce and Family Law Attorney

Our military divorce lawyer, Jamie Graham, has extensive experience representing military personnel and their spouses in divorce and family law matters. We handle all aspects of a divorce, including the following:

  1. Military Child Custody and Visitation Issues
  2. Military Child Support and Enforcement Matters
  3. Division of Marital Property Involving Military Personnel
  4. The Rights of Military Personnel and Fathers
  5. Post-Divorce Modifications for Armed Forces Personnel
  6. Paternity Suits Involving Service Men and Women
Contact an Experienced Military Divorce Law Attorney in San Antonio

If you are serving your country in the armed forces and are stationed in the San Antonio area, or if your spouse is stationed in the San Antonio area, Jamie Graham & Associates, PLLC is here to help. Jamie is licensed to practice law in United States Federal District Court for the Western District District of Texas.

We invite you to schedule a confidential consultation to learn more about how we can help you with your particular family law or divorce matter. For your convenience, you can download a copy of our Family Law Matter Client Information Sheet (client intake form), fill it out and bring it with you to your scheduled appointment. To schedule an appointment with one of our San Antonio divorce lawyers, use our Quick Contact Form to reach us online or call..


Client's Choice 2015
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Jamie Graham & Associates, PLLC
310 S. St. Mary's Street.
Suite. 2500
San Antonio, TX, 78205


4.5 / 5.0
  14 customer reviews
Client's Choice 2015
Client's Choice
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Posted by Melissa | January 30, 2022
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| Hired Attorney
Excellent Attorney and Team
Ms. Jamie Graham and her Law Firm helped me through my divorce; 25 years of marriage. Ms. Graham and her Legal Team demonstrated professionalism, integrity and genuine concern for me. I do not regret placing my trust with them. Thank you!
Posted by Kenneth | May 6, 2019
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| Hired Attorney
Very efficient and quick to help
Was wrapped up in a nasty separation with my wife concerning who owned what with my business. Jamie was quick to help and able to get things wrapped up quickly for me with very little effort on my part. Thanks again!
Posted by Steve | March 19, 2017
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Review of Jamie Graham Attorney
Last year, I experienced a difficult divorce. Jamie and her team were there for me every step of the way. Jamie received me as a client referral from another experienced attorney due to the complexity of the financial asset division in my case. Jamie's acumen and experience proved essential to a fair settlement and smooth transition. Her legal team was both responsive and compassionate in handling my case. Looking back on the whole ordeal and assessing my situation today, I only have praise to offer. She is a consummate pro and I am grateful for everything that she did. I highly recommend her in trying times.
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Posted by anonymous | February 17, 2016
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Child Custody Case
Jamie is a strong lawyer. She knows her stuff. She is honest and won't waste your time or money. We hired her a few years ago to fight for custody of our young daughter back then we didn't have a case due to mistakes from our previous lawyer. Jamie didn't "Work" the case to make more money knowing that we didn't have a chance instead she was straight up with us which was appreciated. She told us what we needed to have a strong case. Fast forward to today we have a strong case and Jamie jumped right in took charge. She doesn't BS at all. Jamie and her team are personable. They don't leave you hanging for answers. If you want a lawyer who is honest, strong and knowledgeable Jamie is your lawyer. I have complete faith in her and her abilities as a lawyer.
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Posted by anonymous | August 27, 2015
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After hiring Jamie and her team to handle my divorce, I couldn't have been a happier client. Not only was Jamie extremely caring, understanding, and made sure I knew exactly what was happening; her staff was just as in tuned. I would recommend Jamie Graham to anyone who needs an attorney.
Posted by USMC (HOORAAH) | August 25, 2015
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| Hired Attorney
Child costudy
Jamie has a great staff especially Tracy Ross. Haven't seen my son in over a month due to false accusations on behalf of my ex wife. Tracy walked into the court room with optimism and the courage that I lacked and got me my back visitation, plus some. We are going back to fight for my son, but with her by my side I feel like a new man. I had always felt like my ex had control, now I know that I don't have to take it anymore. As a single father in Texas, yes I do have rights. Thank you, Tracy and Jamie for giving me the courage to stop the abuse.
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Posted by anonymous | February 26, 2015
Highly recommend
Jamie Graham is one of the most professional, caring attorneys I have had the pleasure of knowing. She has given me great advice throughout the process of my divorce, has been an advocate for my children and just such a pleasure to work with. Going through a divorce is the hardest thing I have ever had to endure. Jamie made the process as smooth as possible, always advocating on my behalf. She took great care to listen to my issues and carefully and thoroughly explain how each one of my concerns was relevant in Texas law. She is patient but knows when to push when necessary and gave me sound advice every time. It is my pleasure to highly recommend the Jamie Graham Law firm.
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Posted by Robert | February 24, 2015
Military Father Advocate
Jamie was instrumental in a battle that lasted several years for the rights of my son. She worked with me through deployments and after being stationed outside of Texas in other places throughout the country. She kept me informed and helped me to navigate around the demands of the military so that I was still represented even when I could not physically be there. She went above and beyond to fight for my rights and ensure that my son was with his father despite the extrordinary efforts of the other often hostile party. Could not think of anyone better to represent a military client. Thank you Jamie.
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Response from Jamie Graham February 25, 2015
Thank you kindly for the review and for allowing me to help you and your son both through one of the hardest times in your lives. Jamie
Posted by anonymous | February 17, 2015
Best I could have asked for
Jamie took my husbands case and helped us out of a mess that another attorney left him in. She was extremely knowledgeable, confident, and experienced in getting our standard orders put back in place. She did not allow our case to continue without visitation and we are now one big happy family. I would recommend Jamie Graham anytime for most anything I need. She still helps me now with questions and other issues like our wills.
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Posted by Glenn | February 17, 2015
Really Cares about my Child
Jamie understood the battle we were up against and proved that she cares about her clients and most of all the kids in the middle. She did exactly what she said she would do and won my rights to my child back so that I could be his "dad" again. Thanks Jamie!!
Posted by Basil | September 19, 2012
Family Law at it's best with the best !
Ms. Graham's professionalism and dedication to my case was unmeasurable, with her help my granddaughter has been saved and placed where she belongs. I felt comfortable and welcomed in her office and very satisfied with her concern for my family's situation. The staff at Ms. Graham's office were helpful , polite , and very informative not enough can be said in a review about how helpful and reassuring they all were. I recommned the Law office of Jamie L. Graham to anyone with a family law concern. Thank you Jamie and staff for everything you have done and are still doing.
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Posted by Kim | September 7, 2011
Very honest
The lawyer is very honest and cring and hard working. I came to her and found she is wonderful and undersanding. And is very knowledgeable.
Posted by anonymous | May 6, 2015
Same Sex custody case
I hired her for a custody case that became messy and when we went in front of the Judge, she did not have much to say, did not ask for child support on temporary orders and then was more concerned about tallying up a win against opposing counsel. However, she did not take care of all the ridiculous small suits the other attorney was filing. She ran up my costs and then finally told me she was at a crossroads and I should seek other counsel. I would not recommend her for same sex cases as she was more into the drama.
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Posted by anonymous | October 28, 2014
Consumer beware...
I was charged ($300.00 per hour) for services/teleconferences that never took place. The Graham firm bills in 15 minute increments even if the conversation last for 2 minutes. I was charged for an hour office conference which lasted about 5-10 minutes, getting feed back/answers/status of case was like finding a needle in a hay stack, although the receptionist were very polite. Not very optimistic about the prognosis of my divorce despite the evidence I presented. Last but not least I was baited with Graham & ended up with a different attorney. Best of luck in your legal battle.
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AVVO RATING 9.5 (Superb)

Work Experience

  • Managing Partner
  • Jamie Graham & Associates
  • 2001 - Present


  • South Texas College of Law
  • 2000
  • Texas A&M University, Corpus Christi
  • BA - Bachelor of Arts
  • 1990


  • Better Business Bureau
  • Jamie Graham & Associates
  • 2013 - Present
  • San Antonio Bar Association
  • Member
  • 2000 - Present
  • U.S. District Court Western District of Texas
  • Member
  • 2000 - Present
  • State Bar of Texas
  • Member
  • 2000 - Present
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Languages Spoken

  • English

Honors and Awards

  • Best Attorney in San Antonio
  • Scene Magazine
  • 2021
  • Best Attorney in San Antonio
  • Scene Magazine
  • 2018
  • Top Lawyer
  • American Jurist Institute
  • 2018
  • Best Attorney in San Antonio
  • Scene Magazine
  • 2017
  • Best Attorney in San Antonio
  • Scene Magazine
  • 2016
  • Lifetime Charter Member
  • Best Attorneys of America
  • 2015
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Attorney endorsements

Received (9)
Given (12)
Endorse Jamie
Family Attorney | Dec 20
Relationship: Worked for lawyer
"I endorse this lawyer."
Family Attorney | Jul 20
Relationship: Worked together on matter
"I endorse this lawyer."
Family Attorney | Mar 03
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Jamie Graham has been a friend and colleague of mine for many years. She is an excellent attorney and is well respected by both her peers and judges. I have recently started working with her firm, which speaks for itself as to my opinion of her as an attorney and a person."
Family Attorney | Feb 24
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I feel blessed every day to have her as a mother, colleague, and friend. She cares deeply for her family and will care deeply for yours as well."
Unknown Attorney | Aug 07
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse this lawyer."
Family Attorney | Jun 09
Relationship: Worked together on matter
"I endorse this lawyer."
Family Attorney | Sep 12
Relationship: Worked together on matter
"Jamie is a fast moving, dedicated family law attorney in San Antonio. I served as the appellate attorney on a divorce case Jamie worked on. I believe she has the requisite experience and skill required to be a solid family law advocate and was impressed with her commitment to her client. I do not practice at the district court level for family law, and so refer many of my clients who need a family law attorney to Jamie Grahm - she is highly recommended."
Family Attorney | Apr 26
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Jamie is a smart, honest attorney. Jamie is a wonderful advocate for children who are often over looked in the course of litigation. Jamie is an excellent problem solver which is invaluable in family law."
Family Attorney | Oct 26
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse this lawyer."
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San Antonio Family Lawyer Jamie Lynn Heggy Graham
Jamie Lynn Heggy Graham
Family Attorney
San Antonio, TX
Licensed for 23 years
Virtual consultation available