How do i send an invitation letter for a visa to the usa to someone in Malaysia for them to come visit me and where do i send it

Your friend from Malaysia needs to apply for a tourist visa at the US consulate. You can send your friend your letter.

On form I-765 : how do I answer ¨Have you ever before applied for employment authorization from USCIS?¨ if I have had a J1 visa?

If you have never applied for a work permit before, then your answer is no.

C1D renewal

You need to talk to your employer.

How can i get my spouse to live in the US if i am a permanent resident?

Currently you can file an I-130 and I-485 for them, but your spouse needs to maintain legal status in the US. Also there could be an issue if your...

Should i pick "political opinion" or "religion " or "participial social group " , when applying for asylum ?

You should pick all three. You need to consult an immigration attorney if you hope to have asylum granted.

Are there any obstacles for an asylee to bring a 18 year old daughter?

No it should not be a problem. You can file a form I-730 for her.

Husband has been detained straight from jail. Immigration says no court date and nothing has been filed.

Generally someone needs to appear in front of a judge to be deported. You should hire an immigration attorney right away. A drug trafficking charge...

If my spouse have a visitors visa and she came to visit me, if i contact the embassy and change her status,is that legal?

You cannot contact the embassy to change her status at the consulate if she is in the United States. You would also have an issue of visa fraud...

Is it safe to appear at Advocate program (Pretrial Diversion Referral Traffic Division) if i am out of status (deportation) ?

You should definitely make an appearance, as traffic court generally does not work with ICE.

I am also confused. I do not think I have ever heard the IRS requiring your original passport. You need to talk to your DSO.