Can I answer and later counter sue?

Yes certainly. Hire an attorney.

I live in Midland Texas what age can a child decide not to visit the other parent?

Age 18. If he is doing something harmful you can request a modification through the family courts. But children do not have the right to choose...

Yes it is very common for women to change their names in their divorce decree.

When spouse moves money over past 10 yr of 25 yr marriage online can attorneys trace?

Hire a Family Law Attorney. They can serve him with discovery and obtain copies of his financial documents. They may be able trace his transfers.

Non custodial parent does not show for Visitation ?

File a Petition to Modify his visitation. You could ask that he have to pick up and drop off from your residence, and that he be required to give...

Deposition order?

Prepare and file a Motion to Quash, Motion for Continuance.

Can my husband adopt my 3 year old son ?

Maybe. The father's rights will need to be determined, if there is a ground for termination under Chapter 161 of the Texas Family Code, and it is...

Do I own half of an account inherited by my spouse?

It depends, including on whether the inheritance (which is her separate property), can be traced. You may have an interest in the increase, and...

Do I need to use a specific form to request discovery from my ex-husband's attorney since I'm representing myself?

Discovery requests do have to have a specific form. Requests are covered by Texas Rules of Civil Procedure Rules 194, 196, 197, and 198, and...

If my ex refuses to return our child after visitation, can I call the police to his residence to regain custody?

The police may or not be willing to get involved. You can hire an attorney and file a motion for enforcement asking that he be held in contempt of...