Can my lawyer husband take the kids from me as we go through divorce/custody ?

Maybe. Hire an attorney. You are entitled to access to the community estate a gold plated attorney too.

Legalities of moving out at the age of seventeen? And info on marriage under age of eighteen?

You cannot get married in Texas under age 18 without a Judge's permission. You cannot move out at 16. You cannot be emancipated unless you are...

It would be entirely inappropriate for you to talk to the other attorney, or for the other attorney to talk to you. You would embarrass your...

I received a letter for a parent conference to discuss visitation But the childs father has not been in his life for 9 years.

Without seeing the letter or having any idea of who the letter is from, I do not know how to respond.

Divorce-property?

Get an attorney to review your Decree and probably file a Motion for Enforcement and/or a Motion to Clarify the Decree

What do I do now?

I don't know how Texas became involved, or why you thought Texas had jurisdiction over any of it. You should reach out to California counsel ASAP.

Can a parent get limited or supervised visits based on a previous arrest record?

You can pursue it on that basis. But also stress that he does not know how to care for your son's special needs.

Do I have any legal ramifications when my ex continues to forfeit his court-ordered time? It happens 25% of the time.

Visitation is a right not a duty. When the non possessory parent doesn't exercise summer visitation for example, I have seen a possessory...

Can my boyfriend adopt my daughter

Yes, but you should marry your boyfriend first.

What happens if I violate a safety plan?

It can be a basis for removal of your child. Look at see whether there is an expiration date on your safety plan. You and your husband need to...