How can a person b charged w two felonies of orig. Criminal activity and theft when they haven't been arrested for the crime?

You need to reach out to a criminal law attorney.

How can my husband adopt my 2 children if their father won't give up his rights?

Hire an attorney to prepare, file and prosecute a Petition for Termination of Parental Rights and Step Parent Adoption.

I wouldn’t see why unless the litigation affected your rights to the property in some way.

My 16 yr old step daughter has been making false allegations

If your step daughter is saying that you are inappropriate or abusive you should not be alone with her. Your wife may wish to seek other...

At what age can my 10 1/2 year old grandchild refuse to go for visitation with her biological mother?

You need to follow the order. If the order gives mom visitation, and you don’t think she should have visitation you can file a petition to modify....

Can I get full custody of my son from illegal mother living in Mexico with child?

I don't know. I didn't hear anything that suggests that you are the better parent. Meet with an attorney to discuss.

How do I go about getting visitation rights to see my nieces if they were legally adopted by their grandmother ?

The only think I know that you can do is get the permission of their adoptive parent (the grandmother) to see them.

Should I report inappropriateness reported by my daughter about her father?

You should have reported it to CPS and taken the child to the doctor the first time. You have a legal duty to report. If you cannot be protective...

Can father grant full custody if mother & children are in a shelter?

Maybe. The standard is the best interest of the children. A Judge may or may not find that granting father custody is in the best interest of...

Is it possible to settle a case after trial and concluded?

Absolutely. But it can be tricky because the agreement needs to be written, signed and filed with the Court before the Judge rules.