First, you need a Board Certified immigration attorney. Second, you need someone you like who fits this criteria. Good luck!

No, you cannot. You need valid advance parole to travel.

Not having a valid visa is why revalidation exists. If your visa is valid you don't need revalidation. Isn't this something you could discuss with...

You need to consult with a Board Certified immigration attorney immediately. No, you cannot travel because under these facts you may be deportable.

Have you considered talking to the attorney being paid to represent you?

If you enter the US as a visitor, you will not have F-1 status.

There are no options to work two full-time jobs at the same time. At least as a non-immigrant.

Unfortunately, for follow to join you must have your AOS approved and then an I-824 approved and sent to NVC. All of this is is time consuming....

Good questions to ask your own immigration attorney. Keeping the H-1 active is entirely up to you and might be a good idea due to delays with...

This really needs a consultation with a Board Certified client Immigration Attorney. Good luck.