You should follow the CIS instructions, and don't second guess them. Also, why weren't the I-485s filed with the I-130s?

The inc. probably won't matter but you need to watch their work carefully if they can do this simple thing incorrectly. Good luck

His wife will be called an "after-acquired spouse" and it does not matter when they marry; she is automatically included as is any child born...

Since it will be 10-14 years before the EB-4 case helps your sister and family, the date of the bably's birth does matter. Good luck!

Why won't your employer cooroperate? They did for the other changes. More importantly, you can ask CIS to accept the still pending EB-2 petition....

As long as you worked at least a day for the H-1 company, and did not spend more than a year out of the US, you do not need to go through the...

You can only work in H-4 status if your spouse has an approved I-140 and you obtain an EAD. You should discuss this with your immigration attorney.

You can apply six months in advance. Good luck.

You must not take any action, including marriage which indicates your intention to marry and/or get married within 90 days of your last entry.

We need a lot more information, particularly on how many entries, and his immigration history.. You should see a Board Certified Immigration attorney.