Who do I talk to about a lady sneaking contraband items to her son in an Oklahoma prison?

Contact the warden. They will put a stop to it.

How do I find a pro bono attorney that will take my boyfriends appeal?

I doubt you will find any attorney's to do a pro bono appeal as they are very expensive and time consuming.

How can my family get guardianship of my child that has been in state custody?

You have to file a guardianship. Get an attorney. DHS is difficult.

What are my legal options if a medical worker accuse me of being on drugs and High during my physical

No. The law won't help you. They don't have to hire you. They can't discriminate but there is no discrimination here. Look for other work.

What can I do if Mother is in and out of child's life?

It sounds like you have a order dealing with custody and visitation. All you can do is request to restrict or suspend visitation. See a lawyer.

So I will get arrested if I have a warrant if I go up to the court house to get married?

Oh it's certainly possible but not a definiete. I wouldn't risk it. Call your attorney.

What do I do when my mother agreed to sign an agreement to get almost nothing in return for spousal support,or future support.

Hopefully she hasn't signed it. File for a guardianship.

Follow the other attorney's advice herein.

Yes, yes. Get a juvenile/criminal defense attorney.

Probably not. Have a process server do a skip trace.