Need serious legal advice, custody of 2boys. Threatened into signing paperwork. Details apply. Now they are wanting me to resign

You need an attorney immediately. This is a complicated situation that requires legal assistance.

Any recourse?

Repost this question in CO as the jurisdiction. Good luck

Can a attorney help me or will it be a waste of money

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The father does not have to live in the school district. Typically drop off and pick up for children occurs at school or daycare.

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Short answer, No. Your friend should consult with an attorney regarding all of his issues.

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If my grandparents got guardianship of my children without me knowing, how do I fight it to regain my rights?

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