Does the dad have any kind of legal status without going to court? What can he do?

Why without going to court? Going to court is what people do to determine and enforce their rights.

How to get immediate custody of my children

Hire counsel. Seek emergency custody.

Can I change my lawyer at this point? What happens if the defendant does not answer her door? Can I start a business now?

You can change attorneys in you desire to do so, though it may not be in your best interests and it will likely cost you more. your new counsel...

It means the person is not going to jail on the day of sentencing, but will have three years of being on probation and reporting to a probation...

Can I have "Flying Fit" trademarked if "Fly Fit" is trademarked by another individual?

I think your odds of being successful are rather non-existent.

What can they search on my phone when I voluntarily turn it over?

They can turn your life upside down, and will, so long as they have your consent. Hire counsel. Do it fast. Stop talking to law enforcement...

Does the administrator have the right to tell my 12yr.old son he cannot go to school?

By the name I am presuming this is a private facility. The answer would be yes in most all instances.

I have lived on this land for over 30 years now a timber company came in and cut down trees after I already put up posted signs

Do you reside there as a tenant or as a landowner. It makes a difference.

The short answer is yes. the better answer is if everyone thinks the existing plan is reasonable except the one property owner, you can ban...

How can I get a company to credit my credit card for a illegitimate charge?

If you sent the modem back, you dispute the charge directly with the credit card company.