Can I sell to retain a lawyer

Yes, to hire counsel, cover living expenses. No if parking assets to hide.

Can I get my ex husband's widow to honor his will for my kids?

A spouse can not simply ignore a will but can seek a forced share if the will tries to exclude her. Hire probate counsel.

What is a motion to revoke on a violation of probation ?

Missed = violated probation. Go hire counsel.

Can I still go to jail for a dui after a month?

Go hire counsel. Y wwill be glad you did. Do not ignore the citation.

Have felony warrant in ohio will they extradite me getting okla state id

It is a possibility, though being stopped going to and back is also possible if driving sans license

Chance of plea bargain?

Rather common. Speak to your counsel.

How do I obtain a divorce without my spouse signing paper work

Document your efforts. Ask court to permit service by publication.

Is being a few days late of fine still considered failure to pay. I dont understand

Yes, but it can be corrected. Make the missing payment then surrender on the warrant.

How or why would b) have charges dropped off him, why would they still be stuck on a)? How can it be proven b) was owner?

May be a matter of he who talks, often walks.

This will be a civil matter, which can become ex pensive.