There are several important pieces of information needed to fully answer your question. But to answer the last part specifically as to him taking...

Anytime you decide to no longer participate in a PTI program the State has the option to re institute the prosecution of the case. Your girlfriend...

Can I get some help can any criminal defense lawyer email me

Plenty local attorneys to contact. Many offer free consults

If I received a summons for shoplifting but wasn't arrested will I end up going to jail after my court date.

Jail time is definitely a possibility for a third offense. You will want to discuss with and attorney for a possible plea deal

What chances does a Father have of taking a child away from their mother?

As previously said there are to many variables to a child custody case. Also if there is a prior custody agreement can determine the chances. My...

Custody

Both of you should have received the same paperwork. Once the Judge made a ruling for custody and visitation the same paperwork should have been...