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My wife and i had a great marriage she had a tramatic acccident developed Fibro. hurts all the time so she flipped out took kids

Melissa's answer | Answered on July 09, 2012

Filing for a divorce, seeking sole physical and legal custody of your boys is certainly an option. If you just wanted to file for separation and...

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Is there any way I could possibly get out of having to see my father on court order?

Melissa's answer | Answered on July 05, 2012

A court order is just that, an order. But courts do take into consideration a minor child's wishes if they are of an appropriate age and can...

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I was wondering could my wife get alimony if we have been married for 2years and 6 months in the state of Nebraska?

Melissa's answer | Answered on July 05, 2012

Alimony is not mandatory but at the discretion of the Court. In considering an award of alimony, a court's polestar must be fairness and...

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I want to ask my husband for a divorce, our kids are raised, last one headed to college this fall. I want to cash in one of my

Melissa's answer | Answered on July 02, 2012

Since you want out, consult a local divorce attorney to file for divorce. Additionally, discuss with them how the marital assets (401(k) and the...

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I want to sign my parental rights over my daughter to her grandfather, can I do that without her father losing his rights?

Melissa's answer | Answered on June 30, 2012

There is not enough information here. If the grandfather wants to adopt, then your daughter's father would have to be in agreement because he would...

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Since me an my ex lived together for at least 6 months out of the year an he has custody of my child is it still on going

Melissa's answer | Answered on June 25, 2012

Since you gave him custody three years ago, there is probably a Decree that states who has custody in the eyes of the law. Thus, you could probably...

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What chance does my childs father have of getting Temporary or permanent custody ?

Melissa's answer | Answered on June 25, 2012

There is not enough information here, such as in what state did you file and what state did he file. Since you filed, it sounds like you might have...

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Hello, I have joint custody of my 4 year old son. My obligations are to take care of half of his daycare.

Melissa's answer | Answered on June 25, 2012

Review your parenting plan. If there is language about joint legal custody, then the two of you have to decide which daycare your son goes to...

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If the mother doesn't request child support, is it mandatory? Especially if the child is staying at home with me in the home.

Melissa's answer | Answered on June 22, 2012

Child support is determined by the Nebraska Child Support Calculator using information included but not limited to both parents income, retirement...

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If im bout to hav a babi and my parental rights was term from my other kids.Can i hav more kids?

Melissa's answer | Answered on June 20, 2012

There is not enough information here. If your rights to your other children were terminated by the Juvenile Court, it is possible for the State to...

Melissa Marie Oestmann's Answers (67)

My wife and i had a great marriage she had a tramatic acccident developed Fibro. hurts all the time so she flipped out took kids

Is there any way I could possibly get out of having to see my father on court order?

I was wondering could my wife get alimony if we have been married for 2years and 6 months in the state of Nebraska?

I want to ask my husband for a divorce, our kids are raised, last one headed to college this fall. I want to cash in one of my

I want to sign my parental rights over my daughter to her grandfather, can I do that without her father losing his rights?

Since me an my ex lived together for at least 6 months out of the year an he has custody of my child is it still on going

What chance does my childs father have of getting Temporary or permanent custody ?

Hello, I have joint custody of my 4 year old son. My obligations are to take care of half of his daycare.

If the mother doesn't request child support, is it mandatory? Especially if the child is staying at home with me in the home.

If im bout to hav a babi and my parental rights was term from my other kids.Can i hav more kids?